Thanks to all the guys at FPVCHAT.slack.com for the advice.
And to Airblade UAV for the amazing service / advice.

Parts are in the mail...patiently waiting.....
Here is the wiring diagram I came up with for this. If anyone more experienced with thes than me notices somethign wrogn in the diagram CALL ME OUT and le t me know...

3/3/19: Got all the parts in and got it about 75% finished, just have to figure out where / how I want to mount the XM+ mini. Still needs the motors mapped and betaflight setup.

3/9/19: Got everything set up in betaflight and my QX7. May need to flash the firmware on the XM+. There is no rssi on channel 16. Bummer. Added propgaurds and shes a heavy girl. Have to go 2s with 2 x 550 mah 1s batteries for any managble flight times but she rips...at least for me.

3/29/19: Took off the prop gaurds...was draining batteries to dangerous levels for 3 min of flight times. Need to tune it, right now its very sketchy and oer sensitive.